Humans don't fit into an algorithm. This is particularly true when we’re talking about humans and their money. Because “Humans + Money” is a messy little cocktail that economists refer to as a complex adaptive system. “Humans + Money” is complex because cause and effect can only honestly be identified with the benefit of hindsight, and it’s adaptive because our interaction with the system changes it. Try cramming that into an algorithm.
One of the most challenging personal finance issues we all face is an ever-expanding definition of “need.” Things we once thought of as clear luxuries somehow become necessities, often without any consideration of how the change in status happened.
I absolutely LOVE Tate's Chocolate Chip Cookies. Sometimes, though, I'll absentmindedly eat way too many of them. After all, they're pretty thin!
Security is a feeling… not a number Here’s a paradox: 1 - I know people who have more money than they will ever need, but are totally insecure. 2 - I know people who have almost nothing, but are totally secure. The conclusion this forces me to draw is that if security exists at all, it is a feeling… not a number. The good news is, that means we can have some control over it. The bad news is, that means it’s up to us to learn how.
Here’s a tough question: Is it hard for you to talk about money with your spouse or partner? It’s challenging for us to talk about money. One of the keys to talking about money: knowing that it’s going to be hard.
When tackling big, audacious goals, you don’t need big, audacious actions. All you need is the contagious magic of micro-actions. Because micro-actions spread.